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I Went to a Restaurant to Meet My Fiancé’s Parents for the First Time, but What They Did Made Me Cancel the Wedding

Oct 08, 2024

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I thought meeting my fiancé’s parents would be just another step toward our future, but one disastrous dinner revealed the truth about Richard’s world. By the end of that night, I was left with no choice but to cancel the wedding.

I never thought I’d be the type to call off a wedding. But life has a way of surprising you, doesn’t it?

I’m one of those people who prefer making big decisions after talking to my friends and family and knowing what they think about it. But this time, I just knew I had to do this.

A woman sitting in her living room, thinking | Source: Midjourney

I knew I had to cancel the wedding because what happened at the restaurant that day was something I didn’t see coming.

Before discussing that day, let me share a bit about my fiancé, Richard. I met him at work when he joined as a junior executive in accounting. I don’t know what it was, but something about him attracted me. Something that made me notice him right away.

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Richard fit the definition of a handsome man. Tall, stylish hair, a warm smile, and a great sense of humor. He quickly became the office favorite, and soon, we were chatting during coffee breaks.

We started dating around seven weeks after he joined, and I realized he was everything I wanted in a partner. Confident, kind, responsible, and solution-oriented. Just the kind of man a clumsy woman like me needed.

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Our relationship moved fast. WAY too fast, now that I think about it. Richard proposed just six months after we started dating, and I was so caught up in the whirlwind romance that I said yes without hesitation.

Everything about him seemed perfect, except for one thing: I hadn’t met his parents yet. They lived in another state, and Richard always had an excuse for why we couldn’t visit. But once they heard about our engagement, they insisted on meeting me.

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“They’re going to love you,” Richard assured me, squeezing my hand. “I’ve booked us a table at that fancy new place downtown for Friday night.”

I spent the next few days in a panic. What should I wear? What if they didn’t like me? What if they tell Richard to leave me?

I swear I tried around a dozen outfits before settling on a classic black dress. I wanted to look sophisticated but not overdressed.

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On Friday, I came home early from work and got ready. No-makeup look, cute black heels, a mini bag, and a natural hairstyle. I wanted to keep it simple but perfect for the occasion. Richard picked me up soon after.

“You look gorgeous, babe!” he said, flashing the smile I adored. “Ready?”

I nodded, trying to calm my nerves. “I really hope they like me.”

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“They will, babe,” he held my hand. “After all, you’ve got everything that a parent would want to see in their child’s partner. You’re amazing inside out.”

I felt a bit relieved at that point, but I still wasn’t ready for the drama that was about to unfold.

A few minutes later, we entered the restaurant, and I thought it was stunning. Crystal chandeliers hung from the ceiling, and soft piano music filled the air. It was the kind of place where even the water glasses looked expensive.

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We spotted Richard’s parents at a table near the window. His mother, Isabella, a petite woman with perfectly coiffed hair, stood up as we approached. Meanwhile, his father, Daniel, who seemed quite stern, remained seated.

“Oh, Richard!” his mother cooed as we approached her, completely ignoring me. She wrapped Richard in a tight hug, then held him at arm’s length. “You look so weak. Have you lost weight? Are you eating enough?”

A worried woman talking to her son | Source: Midjourney

I stood there awkwardly until Richard finally remembered me.

“Mom, Dad, this is Clara, my fiancée.”

His mother looked at me from head to toe.

“Oh yes, hello dear,” she gave a smile that was not quite reaching her eyes.

His father just grunted.

As we sat down, I tried to start a conversation.

“It’s so nice to finally meet you both. Richard has told me so much about you.”

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Before either of them could respond, a waiter appeared with menus. As we looked them over, I noticed Richard’s mother leaning towards him.

“Oh, sweetie,” she said in a loud whisper, “do you want Mommy to order for you? I know how you get overwhelmed with too many choices.”

What the… I thought.

Richard was thirty years old, and Isabella was treating him like he was eight. But to my surprise, he just nodded. I thought he’d tell her to stop treating him like a baby, but I was wrong.

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“Thanks, Mom,” he said. “You know what I like.”

I tried to catch Richard’s eye, but he was focused on his mother. She proceeded to order the most expensive items on the menu for both of them. Lobster, prime rib, and a $200 bottle of wine.

When it was my turn, I ordered a simple pasta dish. I was too stunned to have much of an appetite.

As we waited for our food, Daniel finally addressed me directly.

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“So, Clara,” he said, his voice gruff. “What are your intentions with our son?”

I almost choked on my water. “I’m sorry?”

“Well, you’re planning to marry him, aren’t you? How do you plan to take care of him? You know he needs his clothes ironed just so, and he can’t sleep without his special pillow.”

I looked at Richard, expecting him to jump in, to tell his father this was inappropriate. But he just sat there, silent.

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“I… uhh…” I stammered. “We haven’t really discussed those details yet.”

“Oh, you’ll need to learn quickly dear,” Isabella intervened. “Our Richie is very particular. He needs dinner by exactly 6 p.m. every day, and don’t even think about serving him vegetables. He won’t touch them.”

Okay, I didn’t sign up for this, I thought. What was going on? Why was Richard not saying anything to his parents? Why was he letting them treat him like a baby?

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At that point, the waiter arrived with the food, momentarily saving me from having to respond. As we ate, Richard’s parents continued to fuss over him.

I couldn’t believe my eyes when I saw Isabella cut the steak for him, while Daniel kept reminding him to use his napkin. I was stunned.

As expected, my appetite had vanished, so I just sat there, picking at my pasta. I kept thinking why I didn’t see this coming. Why had Richard been so reluctant to visit his parents’ place with me when we were dating?

All his excuses started to make sense to me now.

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As the meal drew to a close, I heaved a sigh of relief thinking the worst was behind us. Not yet… the nightmare dinner had just reached its climax.

When the waiter brought the bill, Isabella snatched it up before anyone else could see it. Honestly, I thought she did that because she didn’t want me to pay out of courtesy, but what she said next made me stare at her with wide eyes.

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“Well, dear, I think it’s only fair we split this 50/50, don’t you?” she smiled at me. “After all, we’re family now.”

They had ordered hundreds of dollars worth of food and wine, while I’d had a $20 pasta dish. And now they expected me to pay half? No way!

Feeling flabbergasted, I looked at Richard, silently pleading with him to say something. I expected him to stand up for me and tell his mother how ridiculous she sounded. But that man just sat there, avoiding my gaze.

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In that moment, everything became crystal clear. This wasn’t just about an expensive dinner. This was my future if I married Richard. I’d be marrying his parents too.

So, I took a deep breath and stood up.

“Actually,” I began in a steady voice, “I think I’ll just pay for my own meal.”

As Richard and his parents looked at me, I pulled out my wallet and placed enough cash on the table to cover my pasta and a generous tip.

“But…” Isabella protested. “We’re family!”

A woman talking to her son’s fiancé | Source: Midjourney

“No, we’re not,” I said, looking straight into her eyes. “And we’re not going to be.”

Then, I turned to Richard, who finally met my gaze. He looked confused, as if he couldn’t understand what was happening.

“Richard,” I said softly, “I care about you. But this… this isn’t the future I want. I’m not looking for a child to take care of. I want a partner. And I don’t think you’re ready to be that.”

A woman talking to her fiancé | Source: Midjourney

I slipped off my engagement ring and placed it on the table.

“I’m sorry, but the wedding is off.”

With that, I turned and walked out of the restaurant, leaving three stunned faces behind me.

As I stepped into the cool night air, I felt a weight lift off my shoulders. Yes, it hurt. Yes, it was going to be awkward at work. But I knew I’d made the right decision.

The next morning, I returned my wedding dress.

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As the store clerk processed my refund, she asked if everything was okay.

I smiled, feeling lighter than I had in months. “You know what? It will be.”

As I said that, I realized the bravest thing you can do is walk away from something that’s not right for you. It might hurt in the moment, but in the long run, it’s the kindest thing you can do for yourself.

Do you agree?

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This work is inspired by real events and people, but it has been fictionalized for creative purposes. Names, characters, and details have been changed to protect privacy and enhance the narrative. Any resemblance to actual persons, living or dead, or actual events is purely coincidental and not intended by the author.

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